...most people try to escape their lives. So they clutter them up to overflowing.....and agonize because they cant do it all. they feel a lacking and its not in the quantity of their lives but in the quality. Music is made possible by the rests between the notes, by the spaces, the quiet. So also is life, the spaces and the quiet times, the pauses for reflection and breathing are what make life wonderfull and keep us sane. You dont have to do it all, listen to everyone and please them. be still and quiet and listen inside....then choose what you wish. See the wonder all around you. I deal with people all the time that are so tired and jaded and angry....they hate life and they hate themselves. We need to have a place to go to think, relax, ponder, meditate, pray. I create mine, Thank you for looking and for listening.